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Beating Approach Anxiety: How To Meet 'Quality' Women Without Fear Of Rejection

Approaching women can seem daunting to any man who doesn't know exactly what he is doing with women. If you are letting your low self-esteem with women keep you from approaching them, you have approach anxiety. Learn how to beat approach anxiety when it happens, and start having some success approaching women with these 3 tips:

1) Take A Break

When most men decide to approach an attractive woman, their nerves become a factor. If you are like most men, when you approach a woman your heart rate increases, your mouth might dry up, you might feel like you cannot move your legs at all... Approach anxiety may not affect you this severely, but some men are definitely hindered this way... and it gets even worse.

To deal with approach anxiety in the moment, you need to take a break and relax before approaching your target. Gather your thoughts, settle yourself, talk to a friend for a minute or two. You always want to appear to be calm and collected around women to make the best impression, so settle yourself before you approach anyone.

2) Pump Your Tires

Women crave confidence in men more than anything else. Women judge your masculinity by how calm and confident you remain in different situations.

Real confidence, the kind that women find irresistible, comes from a deep belief system that you have about yourself. People who have poor self-confidence simply don't understand other people. They think, "I'm too fat, ugly, short, broke, etc... to get with that girl."

This is how to beat approach anxiety: Don't take yourself out of the game. Learn to challenge the things that you tell yourself that leads to your poor self esteem. The fact is that women are not as shallow as men. It has been proven that women rate personality much higher than looks in terms of attraction.

The truth is that you have no idea what any particular woman will be attracted to. The point is to go over there and find out. Remember: If you approach a woman, there is always a chance that you will get rejected. However, if you never approach her at all, you are being rejected by YOURSELF 100% of the time.

3) Fake It Until You Make It

Truly confident people are not afraid to try anything, because they honestly believe in themselves. This makes confident men less inhibited, and therefore, more exciting to women. Strive to present yourself as a truly confident man at all times, if you want to learn how to beat approach anxiety and begin to have true success with women.

If you confidence level is not quite there, fake it until you make it. Even if you don't know what you are doing, act like you know exactly what you are doing. Even if she catches on, she will think you are sexy for trying something that you didn't know how to do... and this will further confirm to her that you are a truly confident man.

Men who display these traits to women are seen as confident winners, alpha males, bad boys, etc... Men like this have an ability to create a wider array of emotions in women that they find irresistible. Women never really figure out if they like this or not, which is why you stay on their mind all of the time. All they know for sure is that they don't want it to stop.